
happy together :-)
When I first started to live abroad, my landlady told me that I might take a bath AT MOST ONCE A WEEK. She then added that she was generous enough to allow me to take a shower additionally a few times a week, and I was also lucky enough to be able to take a shower in a nearby sports center if I wanted to shower more often.
It was in Germany and the first culture shock in my life. I wondered why Germans didn't need bath as often as Japanese. Are they stingy? Don't Germans take bath every day? Don't they feel uncomfortable? Don't they smell?
I was thereafter forced to be satisfied with German way of life. It's now OK for me not to take a bath every day so long as I am abroad. However, at home I cannot give up bathing every day, especially in summer. The summer of Japan is sub-tropical. The hot and humid weather makes it a must to take a bath. When I saw in Bali people bathing - 'mande mande' - in river every evening, I was convinced of the similarity of culture of Japan and Bali and felt sympathetic for the Balinese.
In the Japanese bathing culture, "onsen" is famous and loved also by many foreign visitors or expats in Japan. The second famous institution is "sento" (public bath) which established its status in the Edo Period as an urban institution for low class citizens. Public bath was a very popular facility in cities till, I recall, the 1960s. However, though spa resorts are getting popular as destinations for leisure, public baths have been losing their raison d'etre, because home bath becomes a general trend as the living standard increases.
There is a very basic difference of bathing etiquette between Europe and Japan
(*). We go into bath tab to make us warm and relaxed in hot water (40 - 44 Cent.). We share the same water with others, so we have to keep the water as clean as possible. It is out of question to wash ourselves in the bath tab. We wash our body and hair outside of the tab. This is the same as in the public bath. We sit on a stool and clean ourselves using water from faucet or shower or from the bath tab. So, our bath always has a washing space like the second photo right.
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- Though I have been to other Asian countries many times, I don't know exactly how the people in those countries take a bath within their own private houses :-( But, I presume that they have similar customs as Japanese.
I hear that many Japanese made mistakes in this regard when they went abroad for the first time.
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They sometimes washed themselves out of the bath tab and incurred mishaps. I hear that there were Japanese who had to pay for the damages caused by flood water :-) So, "
wash yourself in the bath tab" was and maybe still is in the first lesson of the Western etiquette for Japanese.
Anyhow, bathing is a fun. For children it is like playing in a swimming pool. I also like bathing, especially in the morning when the sun shins and I can enjoy blue sky and beautiful green forest from the bath. The morning bathing was believed to be a evil in Japan as it makes people relax and unwilling to work. In a folklore of the Fukushima prefecture a son of a billionaire family "Shosuke-san" was described to have exhausted his fortune as he loved "
sleeping till late morning, drinking in the morning and taking a morning bath". What a small sin it is !!!